My partner, fiancé, soulmate John Bojke died suddenly last Sunday. There are no words to describe the devastation I feel.
We met when we were 16 but only became a couple 18 months ago. We used to talk of the lost time we should have had. We were engaged and planning a life together. He had met my daughter and the two were best friends often playing tricks on each other or winding each other up. They had a thing where all questions were answered with the word ‘Chicken!’. (I have no idea why?😂).
So many people have sent me messages and asked what they can do to help. The best thing to do is to offer your time and keep talking to me.
I’ve set up this listing for those who are far away and can buy me a coffee. This will mean I have to get up, get dressed, go to a cafe, sit with someone and drink a cup of coffee. It will stop me from getting depressed. It will help. It’s a small gesture and there’s no obligation of course.
Overnight I became a single mother for the second time. My own family have died and the thought of facing life alone is unbearable. Your support is valued and heard and it will keep me afloat while I take time to grieve. Thank you.